Title: |
Psychotherapy of Sexually Abused Children and Their Families
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Author: |
William N. Friedrich |
Publisher: |
W. W. Norton & Company © 1990 |
W. W. Norton & Company
500 Fifth Ave.
New York, NY 10110
$34.95
Description:
This 318 page book is about much more than doing
psychotherapy with child victims of sexual abuse and their families. It is about
the practice of clinical psychology as it is applied to the needs of children
and their families. The approach described here begins in Chapter 1 with the
fundamental concept upon which the practice of clinical psychology must be
based: that there is hope. Human beings cope with adversity. What a clinical
psychologist does can make a difference. If we did not believe this, we would
have no business practicing clinical psychology.
Chapter 2 presents the reality that human life is a process
of development both for individuals and for families. Healing begins with
awareness and recognition of the dynamic and living nature of individual growth
and the significance of the place the individual occupies in the process. Chapter 3 is a plea for careful and thorough assessment of the situation, the
individual(s) involved, the resources, and the problems. In a responsible and
professional manner, it is acknowledged that an assessment may show either
little therapy or no therapy is needed. Not every sexually abused child needs to
be put into treatment. Chapter 4 is an attempt to balance therapists who
"lead with their hearts" and those who "lead with their
heads," that is, relational and analytic approaches. There are cautions
that are both wise and necessary (i.e., the first step for a therapist is to be
aware of personal biases and experiences). Chapter 5, on individual treatment,
acknowledges the research evidence suggesting behavioral treatments are most
effective, but then, with respect to sexual abuse victims, repeats much of the
nonbehavioral approach to treatment. Chapter 6 supports treating the family as
an effective procedure and outlines a standard family therapy approach. Chapter
7 correctly sees group therapy as a distinct modality that is not just
individual treatment done at less cost. Group therapy may be an effective
primary treatment approach for sexual abuse victims. Hypnosis is presented as a
valuable therapeutic modality for children in Chapter 8. There is endorsement of the view that
hypnosis can be used to bring about recall of prior sexual abuse that had been
neither remembered nor known in consciousness. Based upon the assertion that
sexually abused children display sexually inappropriate and aggressive
behaviors, Chapter 9 suggests a treatment approach to resolve these problem
sexual behaviors. The final chapter is an open and forthright effort to consider
the person of the therapist. The impact and involvement of the therapist is most
often overlooked as a contributing, even causal, factor in responding to sexual
abuse of children. Open acknowledgment of factors such as countertransference,
the stressful emotional demands, and conflicts between roles can only be a
helpful step forward for those mental health professionals who are in good
conscience trying to do the best possible job for sexual abuse victims and their
families.
Discussion:
This is a good book.
This is a very dangerous book.
This is a good book because it presents a comprehensive and
detailed review of much of the research literature relating to child sexual
abuse. The author makes a serious effort to present relevant empirical data for
all the issues considered in the book. When the data requires it, limiting and
cautioning statements are made. An example is the discussion on behavioral
symptoms. There is recognition that behavioral symptoms exhibited by sexually
abused children are not unique to this group (p.74) and "... the presence of
several specific behavioral problems cannot, in itself, be viewed as conclusive
evidence of sexual abuse" (p.78). In discussing sexual behavior by
children, while saying sexualized behavior has consistently been linked to
sexual abuse, reference is made to the author's own research showing that
"... this
is not necessarily the case for even the majority of children" (p.74).
Throughout the book a balanced and relatively accurate
summary of the empirical data bearing on a given issue is quite succinctly
expressed. "However, no studies exist that document the success of
individual therapy with sexually abused children" (p.132). "The
current literature on families with a sexually abused child is primarily
clinical in nature, with empirical research only recently emerging"
(p.171). These kind of statements are both accurate and important for a clear
grasp of the current state of knowledge in the science of psychology about the
phenomenon of sexual abuse of children.
This is a good book because the compassion, caring, and love
of children that may characterize the best and most admirable of adult behaviors
toward children is evident in almost every page. A responsible and competent
mental health professional can be compassionate, caring, and loving. A
thoughtful mental health professional will understand the nature of hope, the
strength of our shared humanity, and the courage every human being shows in
living. There is considerable evidence suggesting these may well be the most
important curative factors in psychotherapy. A book that succeeds in sharing
that quality as well as this book does is a good book. There is much here to be
learned about the heart of a clinician.
The inevitable conflict of the clinician comes clear in these
pages. The clinician cannot wait for complete and full knowledge. The clinician
is confronted with a person who is in trouble. The clinician has made a decision
to help. So the clinician acts and does what seems reasonable at that time to
that clinician. You cannot tell the anguished and troubled person standing
before you to wait until you run an experiment or get a grant of a million
dollars to do a study. You act. This is the choice of Dr. Friedrich.
"There
is a tension within the book between theory and technique. Both are present
because I believe both are absolutely necessary. Yet we each have different
needs, and when we are feeling pressed we usually want to know 'What might I try
next?' rather than the underpinnings of the technique."
This is why the book is dangerous. It appears to be so right,
so kind, and so courageous for you to act and to do what you can, knowing that
you do not have all the information and data that you need. Who can criticize
such bold and compassionate clinical judgment?
However, erroneous information and error-riddled procedures
covered with a veneer of scientific plausibility is more harmful than no
information at all, especially when dealing with issues as sensitive and
volatile as child sexual abuse. The lives of children, parents, families, and
the nation as a whole are powerfully affected by the legal system and the steps,
procedures, and techniques suggested in this book. If adults make a mistake and
nonabused children and nonabusive families are treated as if abused and abusing,
the consequences may well be disastrous.
This book is an illustration of the Russell-Whitehead
dichotomy between simple-minded and muddle-headed psychologists. Simple-minded
psychologists seek to submit to data. Muddle-headed psychologists attend to
internal realities and choices. Wherever there is a choice point, Dr. Friedrich
chooses to abandon what is known from the data he has already cited
and elect a choice based upon his internal values and intuitions. Having
reported his own research on developing a Child Sexual Behavior Inventory and
acknowledged that parents of normal children, ages 2 to 6, endorsed items at a
40% level or more, he continues "... this will miss the sexually abused
children who are not sexualized, it can identify those sexually abused children
who are sexualized and who may or may not be disclosing the abuse" (p.82).
What about the nonabused children who may be sexualized and eroticized as he
discusses in Chapter 1? He then continues "It is only logical that sexual
behavior discriminates sexually abused children from nonabused children"
(p.82).
This is a choice to contravene the fundamental character of a
scientific approach to an issue. Science and the scientific method was developed
to assure that human beings do not choose that which seems to be clearly
logical. At one time human beings thought it was logical that the sun revolved
around the earth, sailing west meant you would fall off the edge of the earth,
and that smoking was beneficial to health.
Friedrich states, "Despite the failure of projective
drawings to be empirically diagnostic for almost any disorder, several papers
have been written about their clinical utility with sexually abused children.
...
It is always too easy to overinterpret drawings" (p.84-85). He then reports
his own research findings on drawings of human genitalia, that a larger than
expected percentage of normal children were reported to have drawn them at least
once. "The presence of genitals on human figure drawings done in a clinical
setting is probably appropriately viewed as pathognomic" (p. 86).
In the discussion of treatment, the empirical data
demonstrating the superiority of behavioral methods is cited. The remainder of
the chapter presents a feeling-expressive, insight-oriented talking therapy as
the most desirable way to help a sexually abused child. Throughout the book the
dogmas and uncritically examined myths of the relatively small group of mental
health professionals who claim to know what and how to do it based upon clinical
judgments and experience are presented as factual. Summit's concept of a sexual
abuse accommodation syndrome, though rejected by the legal system as not
generally accepted in the relevant scientific community and rejected by the
revision committee of DSM-III-R as without scientific merit, is presented as
factual by Friedrich.
This approach may contribute to much mischief and harm. It
fails to take two considerations into account. By abandoning empirical data and
acting contrary to it in some instances, choosing lower validity
clinical inferences, the clinician is not doing the best he or she can for the
troubled individual seeking assistance. While thinking or feeling that he or she
is, the probabilities are that the therapist is not. The probabilities are that
an error will by made which may damage the individual. Even if it should be that
in the individual case clinical inferences result in a correct decision for that
particular case, this desirable result has been reached by a decision policy
that will mean error and mistreatment for other patients presenting an equally
valid claim for assistance. Such a policy is indefensible no matter how good it
may make us feel at the time.
The danger of this book is that it will appear so reasonable,
so well done, and so supported by a scientific approach that mistakenly is
transferred as if it supported all of the positions taken by Dr. Friedrich.
It
may lead unsophisticated mental health professionals, who do not distinguish
what is empirically supported from what is not, to become more convinced of the
rightness of their choices and the correctness of their procedures. It would be
better for all professionals to have a more open, more seeking, and more
provisional understanding of the research and what is best for their clients.
This provides the best hope for helping or at least not harming a patient, a
child, a family, or the legal system. Unfortunately, it appears likely that
muddleheadedness is a terminal disease and highly resistant to correction.
Reviewed by Ralph Underwager, Institute for Psychological
Therapies, Northfield, Minnesota 55057.